*ZING!* ;-)
This is an excerpt from a chat with a friend who is in a tough legal situation.
They are innocent of the charges, but are concerned about the rumor mill and losing friends.
(23:03:18) sja: The opinions of men do not change the truth before God.
(23:03:46) sja: Events like this don’t cause you to lose friends —
(23:03:53) sja: they cause you to see who your true friends are.